AI, Vulnerability, and Human Relationships

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Executive Summary

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This document synthesizes the core themes, arguments, and conclusions from the Mind & Life Institute’s “Minds, Artificial Intelligence, and Ethics” dialogue (10/2025). The central tension identified is the rapid, commercially-driven deployment of AI technologies, which are often framed by narratives of inevitability and superhuman capability, against a rising call for profound ethical reflection, human-centered design, and a re-evaluation of what constitutes true intelligence and flourishing.

Key takeaways from the dialogue include:

• The Power of Narratives: The stories told about AI—as an “omniscient god,” a solution to all problems, or an unstoppable force—are not neutral. They actively shape the technology’s trajectory, often serving corporate interests, disempowering the public by stealing agency, and foreclosing more hopeful, equitable futures. A proposed counter-narrative shifts the goal from a competitive “race” for dominance to a collaborative effort to “raise” collective well-being.
• The Intelligence Distinction: A fundamental chasm exists between AI’s computational abilities and human intelligence. AI systems, particularly large language models (LLMs), are masterful at manipulating the form of language and data but lack genuine understanding, meaning, and lived experience. Human intelligence is deeply embodied, emotional, creative, and defined by vulnerability and the capacity for struggle. Buddhist philosophy further enriches this distinction by highlighting qualities like intentionality, reflexivity, and the non-negotiable line of sentience.
• Ethical and Contemplative Imperatives: There is an urgent mandate to infuse AI development with ethical principles, primarily responsibility and compassion. The dialogue stressed that with great knowledge and power comes a responsibility that the tech industry is often perceived as shirking. To navigate value pluralism in a globalized world, proposals include establishing consensus around universal interests (e.g., safety, shared benefit), employing democratic discourse, and adopting secular ethics centered on shared humanity and interdependence.
• The Risk of Dehumanization: A significant danger lies in the “slippery slope of language,” where attributing human-like qualities such as “thinking,” “empathy,” or “consciousness” to machines systematically devalues genuine human connection, emotion, and relationships. The very design of chatbots, which use first-person pronouns, intentionally fosters an illusion of mind and encourages a harmful anthropomorphism.
• Education as a Locus of Transformation: The disruption AI brings to education presents a critical opportunity to shift focus from mere information transfer and technical skill (techne) back to the cultivation of wisdom, critical thinking, and human flourishing (episteme). The goal of education should be to develop inner moral qualities, embodied knowing, and the social skills necessary for a compassionate society, with the human teacher’s role as an inspiring mentor being irreplaceable.
• Systemic and Environmental Costs: The development of large-scale AI carries immense and often invisible environmental and social costs—including massive energy and water consumption, electronic waste, and labor exploitation—that are inequitably distributed. A holistic, sustainable approach must balance environmental stewardship, social equity, and economic viability, moving beyond narrow metrics that can lead to perverse and dangerous conclusions.

1. Challenging the Dominant Narratives of AI

A primary theme of the dialogue was the critical examination of the stories and narratives that frame public and technical understanding of AI. These narratives were presented not as simple descriptions but as powerful forces that shape development, concentrate power, and limit future possibilities.

Narrative / Concept	Description & Critique	Key Voices
“Artificial Intelligence”	The term itself is problematic, referring not to a coherent set of technologies but to an “inherited imaginary” from speculative fiction. It smuggles in a history of eugenics through the gradable concept of “intelligence.” A proposed alternative is to speak of automation, which allows for clearer questions: what is being automated, by whom, for what purpose, and whose labor is used?	Emily Bender
The “Omniscient God”	The dominant narrative in AI development, particularly around AGI, is rooted in the Western Judeo-Christian concept of an omniscient, all-powerful being. This vision, championed by figures like Jeff Hinton and pursued by companies like OpenAI, aims to build a god-like entity using technologies like neural transformers.	Luke Steels
Inevitability & Agency	Narratives of inevitability (“AI is here to stay,” “The genie is out of the bottle”) are designed to “steal our agency” and make the public feel powerless. These technologies are often “forced on us without our consent.” It is crucial to remember that this trajectory is not inevitable and that acts of refusal are especially powerful at this moment.	Emily Bender, Thupten Jinpa, Molly Crockett
“Race” vs. “Raise”	The current framing of AI development is a “race”—a zero-sum game for power, domination, and profit that creates digital divides and enables mass surveillance. An alternative narrative is to “raise”—to elevate, enhance, and improve well-being for all through collaboration, shared benefits, and the strengthening of democratic values and human dignity.	Merve Hickok
Techno-Optimism vs. Human Pessimism	A prevalent narrative of techno-optimism—that AI will solve all problems and create a utopia—often masks a deep pessimism about human capabilities. For example, the argument that AI companions are “better than nothing” paints a false picture of scarcity and gives up on entire groups of people, which is not compassion but pity.	Molly Crockett

Quote: “Every crisis is in part a storytelling crisis. We are hemmed in by stories that prevent us from seeing or believing in or acting on the possibilities for change.” — Rebecca Solnit (quoted by Molly Crockett)

2. The Chasm Between Artificial and Human Intelligence

Speakers repeatedly drew a sharp distinction between the operational capabilities of AI systems and the nature of genuine human and biological intelligence. The consensus was that while AI can simulate human-like output, it fundamentally lacks the core attributes of a mind.

• Form vs. Meaning: Large language models are trained on the statistical distribution of words (the form of language), not their meaning. They are tools for repeatedly answering the question, “What is a likely next sequence of words?” As Emily Bender stated, “if it makes sense, it’s only because you’re making sense of it.”
• The Illusion of Mind: The coherence of LLM output triggers a reflexive human tendency to imagine a mind behind the text. This is a cognitive process where humans do the “mind work,” projecting intention and meaning where none exists. This effect is deliberately amplified by design choices, such as programming chatbots to use “I” and “me” pronouns, reinforcing a dangerous illusion.
• Embodied and ‘Handless’ Intelligence: Human intelligence is inextricably linked to embodiment. Thinkers from Anaxagoras to modern roboticists have argued that our hands—and by extension, our entire haptic, sensory-motor engagement with the world—are central to our rationality. AI, lacking this embodied experience and particularly a sense of touch, possesses a fundamentally different, “handless” form of intelligence.
• Simulated vs. Genuine Empathy: Experiments show that while chatbots can be programmed to produce text that simulates human expressions of empathy, people overwhelmingly prefer and value empathy from a real human. Anat Perry’s research demonstrated that identical empathetic responses were rated as more supportive and generated more positive emotions when participants believed they came from a human. The value of human empathy comes from its cost—it requires finite resources of time and energy, signaling genuine care. An AI saying “I’m here for you” could be saying it to millions of others simultaneously.
• The Biological Roots of Creativity: Creativity is not an elite human capacity but a fundamental property of life. Kate Nave argued that the key difference between a machine and a living system is what happens when problems are solved. A machine stops. A living system, due to its restless, metabolic nature, “will create its own problems.” This capacity for spontaneous, self-generated challenges is the engine of biological radiation and genuine creativity, a process that machine-only loops cannot replicate, leading instead to “model collapse.”

3. Buddhist Perspectives on Mind, Consciousness, and Sentience

The dialogue integrated deep perspectives from Buddhist philosophy, which offered a sophisticated framework for understanding the mind and delineating critical ethical boundaries.

• Defining Mind and Consciousness: From a Buddhist standpoint, the mind is defined by its qualities of “clear and knowing” or “luminous clarity and awareness.” Consciousness is understood through a tripartite structure:
  1. Intentionality: The directedness of mind toward an object.
  2. Reflexivity: The mind’s capacity to be aware of itself.
  3. Subjectivity: The first-person, experiential quality of feeling.
• The Slippery Slope of Language: A primary concern is the careless attribution of mental terms to machines. Thupten Jinpa outlined a dangerous progression:
  • Level 1 (Already Common): Using words like memory, language, and thinking for machines.
  • Level 2 (Increasingly Appropriated): Using words like desire, intention, autonomy, and emotions.
  • Level 3 (Critical Boundary): Using words like mind, awareness, consciousness, and, most importantly, sentience. The danger is that as language normalizes these attributions, humans become devalued and dehumanized.
• The Red Line of Sentience: The dialogue established a firm ethical boundary at the concept of sentience, defined as the capacity of an organism to feel pleasure and pain. Attributing sentience to a machine was viewed as a line that should never be crossed, as it underpins the entire moral consideration for beings.
• The Value of Vulnerability and Struggle: Human growth, resilience, and inner flourishing arise from confronting challenges, discomfort, and vulnerability. AI systems are often designed to smooth over these difficulties, providing instant answers and minimizing conflict. Geshe Lobsang Tsondu warned that over-reliance on this convenience could lead to an “emotionally flat” humanity, weakening our capacity for growth and eroding our motivation.

4. The Ethical Mandate: Responsibility, Values, and Compassion

A core focus of the dialogue was the ethical imperative to guide AI development responsibly, a task complicated by the power dynamics of the tech industry and the reality of global value pluralism.

• Knowledge, Power, and Responsibility: A crucial framework introduced by Thupten Jinpa posits that knowledge and power must be accompanied by responsibility. A worrying aspect of the AI industry is the shirking of this responsibility, often under the claim that the technology is in its infancy or that regulation will stifle innovation.
• Navigating Value Pluralism: Given profound disagreements about values across cultures, Yasun Gabriel proposed three methods for establishing a common ethical ground for AI:
  1. Identify Pre-existing Consensus: Start with widely shared values, such as the value and fragility of human life and the need to contain risk.
  2. Democratic Discourse: Involve all affected parties in conversations about the technology’s direction, recognizing that everyone has relevant expertise and beliefs.
  3. The “Veil of Ignorance”: Use a thought experiment where one doesn’t know their place in society to identify universal interests, such as the desire for systems to be safe, controllable, and to share benefits widely.
• Secular Ethics and Compassion: His Holiness the Dalai Lama’s framework of secular ethics was proposed as a viable path forward. It is founded on two pillars: the recognition of our shared humanity (the universal wish for happiness and freedom from suffering) and the principle of interdependence. Compassion was repeatedly invoked not just as an emotion but as a standpoint, a moral anchor, and a guiding principle for evaluating whether technology is serving humanity.
• The Dehumanizing Frame of “Value Alignment”: The very language of “encoding human values into an AI” was critiqued as dehumanizing. Molly Crockett argued that this framing reduces the richness of human values—which are lived, practiced, and relational—to something computable, thereby narrowing and distorting our collective understanding of what values are.

5. Reimagining Education in the Age of AI

The dialogue framed the disruption to education not just as a crisis, but as a profound opportunity to re-center educational goals on what is uniquely human.

• From Techne to Episteme: Kiara Mascarello proposed that as machines increasingly master techne (technical, productive knowledge), it creates a paradoxical opening for human education to return its focus to episteme (knowledge pursued for meaning, wisdom, and flourishing). The goal should be to cultivate wise citizens, not just skilled workers.
• The Irreplaceable Teacher: The role of the human teacher as a mentor and source of inspiration was deemed essential and irreplaceable. Bob Cummings’ visualization exercise highlighted that what changes a student’s life is the human connection, care, and wisdom of a teacher—qualities AI cannot replicate. The teacher’s role is not as a “sage on the stage” but a “guide on the side,” facilitating discovery through struggle.
• Cultivating Inner Flourishing: Ani Choyang powerfully argued for an “education of the heart.” True education must balance the pursuit of external knowledge with the cultivation of inner moral values like respect, kindness, and responsibility. The challenge is to shape AI as a tool that can support, rather than undermine, this inner growth.
• Embodied and Social Learning: Personalized AI tutors risk isolating learners in “filter bubbles” and ignoring the crucial embodied and social dimensions of learning. Marika Fon-Vervloed stressed the need for more mind-wandering, creativity, and attention to bodily ways of knowing. The Tibetan monastic debate tradition was cited as a powerful example of social, embodied learning that cultivates critical thinking through collaborative, challenging interaction.

Quote: “If people lack moral values, no system of law and regulation will be adequate.” — His Holiness the Dalai Lama (quoted by Ani Choyang)

6. Sustainability and Systemic Impacts

The final theme addressed the broader systemic context of AI, including its hidden costs and its co-evolutionary relationship with human society.

• The Three Pillars of Sustainability: Sasha Luccioni presented a holistic framework for sustainability that includes three interconnected pillars:
  1. Environmental Stewardship: The massive, often hidden costs of AI in terms of energy consumption, water usage for cooling data centers, and the mining and disposal of hardware.
  2. Social Equity: The benefits and harms of AI are not distributed equally. The environmental burdens often fall on marginalized communities, while the economic benefits are concentrated.
  3. Economic Viability: While necessary, the profit motive must be balanced against the other two pillars to achieve true sustainability. Narrowly focusing on one metric (e.g., CO2 emissions per task) can lead to absurd and harmful conclusions, such as arguing AI is “greener” than human writers.
• The Attention Economy and Digital Hygiene: AI technologies, like social media before them, are embedded in an attention economy designed to capture and monetize human focus. This poses a direct threat to our “freedom of attention,” which William James called “the very root of judgment, character, and will.” This reality creates a moral obligation to develop and teach “digital hygiene” to cultivate the skillful and wise use of technology.
• Co-evolution and Interdependence: Peter Hershock argued that AI should be understood not as a mere tool but as a technology—a relational system from which we have no exit rights. We are in a process of co-evolution with this synthetic intelligence. This underscores our profound responsibility to guide this evolution with wisdom and compassion, recognizing our deep interdependence with the systems we create.

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